Etiquette
Requests
I prefer to answer all initial enquiries through email. Please be respectful and consider your requests, possible needs and desires before contacting me. I am only interested in participating in activities I have a genuine interest in. I am not offended by any requests however, and if your particular kink does not tickle my fancy, I can usually suggest someone who shares your desires.
Health
There is an autoclave at the dungeon and hospital grade disinfectant is used to disinfect equipment after each session.
I attend regularly for sexual health tests. If you're sexually active, you should too. I do not provide 'natural' services. I always use latex condoms, dams and gloves for all patrons (gloves are especially important for preventing cross-contamination during anal play). Please advise me if you have an allergy to latex. If you present with signs of a possible STI I will not be able to provide you with full service, but we can certainly discuss alternatives.
For your nearest free and confidential sexual health clinic please click here.
Cancellations
The time I set aside for you is for you only. I take a limited number of appointments each week. As such, a cancellation fee applies. For sessions under 3 hours the fee is $50. For sessions of 3 hours or longer, the fee is $100. The fee may be waived if you reschedule at the time of cancellation. If less than 24hrs notice is given the fee is 50%.
Timing
It is important to arrive at or just before your appointment time. This ensures your privacy and that I am ready for our meeting. If you feel you may be late simply call or sms with an estimated time of arrival. If you are late your session may still need to finish at the scheduled time. I understand that on occasion, it may be necessary to cancel an appointment. Please do so by calling or sending me an sms. If you do not telephone to confirm your appointment it will be cancelled and you will not be offered future appointments.
Boundaries
Over time we may build a very positive rapport and you will be able to make an appointment via email or sms, and see me during the evening for longer engagements. However, it is vital to know that other boundaries will always remain. These boundaries include those of a sexual nature (eg. kissing on the mouth, receiving anal) and boundaries that are not intimate. The latter includes ringing 'just to say hello', arriving to a premises without an appointment or approaching me if we happen to be in a public setting together.
Media
Please email me with information including your full name, where you are from, the purpose of your article/interview/program, who else you are interviewing and what you are hoping I may be able to provide.
I am not interested in articles/interviews which seek to 'prove' sex workers are 'normal people'. Such articles and interviews bore me; we have so much more to offer.
I am not interested in participating in any interviews, research etc from students - unless you are also a sex worker. Sex workers are busy people, we are not here to add titilation to a classroom.
Limits of Confidentiality
Confidentiality and discretion are very important to me, however, so are the rights of sex workers. As such, if you are a public figure who is actively opposed to decriminalisation of the sex industry or support 'exit training'; are an anti-sex work feminist or are a conservative right-wing politician or minister, you may be outed to the media if you visit me.
Public figures who do not hold the aforementioned beliefs will not be outed.
Please email me if you have any privacy concerns.